Love is in the air! Valentine’s Day is approaching! Let’s talk weddings.
|Congratulations to the happy pair! XOXO|
Not regular ol' weddings, though. Smock weddings.
Say you’re a widow or indebted young lady in 18th century England or America. You’d like to get married to Mr. Ye Olde Hunky Swain, and he wants to marry you. You observe all the traditions, of course: there will be a ceremony with a clergyman, a cake, flowers, and the bride will be kissed.
But you won't wear a new dress, or even your best dress. You won’t be wearing a dress AT ALL.
Hard to believe these actually happened—in churches too—but brides were married naked, or at most, barefoot and donned in one’s chemise (smock) or even draped in a sheet.
|This lady wears a corset over her chemise|
|A 20th C. pattern for a nice, modest 18th C. chemise|
So chemises covered one's (ahem) parts, but it was not by any definition a public garment, and it definitely revealed one's lumpier bits. (They didn't have bras and panties back then.) Which makes it both sad and astonishing that women wore them to be married. Why would they do such a thing?
Widows whose husbands died with debts were not considered desirable partners, since they came with financial obligations that their new grooms were responsible for paying. Some wealthy fellas could take on the debt without issue, but most guys couldn’t marry an indebted bride and have wedding cake and still eat it, too. So apparently, brides in these circumstances went to the church (or, in some American cases, stood outside for an audience), stripped down, to nothing or her underwear, and swapped vows with her groom.
The idea was if a bride was naked or clothed in undergarments, she was symbolically stating that she brought nothing to her marriage, not even debts, and her new husband was not liable for any of her late husband's financial obligations. Back then, women could own nothing, so even if she wore a garment she stitched herself, it was legally the property of her deceased husband. Bringing that clothing into the new marriage apparently put the new husband on the hook for the previous hubby’s debts.
Sounds horrid, and more than a little humiliating. But some women saw no other option. I imagine these weddings were hardly romantic, loving affairs. Rather, they were public testaments to a woman’s financial ruin and desperation.
|As if Regency gowns weren't revealing enough!|
(And yes, this sketch was indeed a parody.)
Early America saw more than a few of these, too. The most famous is Hannah Ward, who married Major Moses Joy while completely naked. She stood in a closet with a hole cut in the door through which she could stick out her hand and take his. At least nobody saw her particular parts.
I suppose we should be grateful that the times have changed. Women can own property, and marriage is viewed (I hope) as a lifetime commitment of love and support, rather than a financial transaction.
Happy Valentine's Day to all, no matter what we're wearing.